What Are We Telling Ourself?

Often we say, “It is difficult” “It is not possible” “All are waiting to hurt me” “I am a failure” and so on. We seldom recognise, "It's a great day and I feel great”. “I am good”. “I am successful”. Our attitudes and values counts a lot. Our values keep us engage achieving what we would really value as valuable. If our belief is that we are not good, we keep believing that we are not good, we lose our self-image, become miserable. As long as we keep believing that way, we keep getting worst. The way out is to question our belief system and value ourselves as successful. 

When we change our likes and dislikes and change our beliefs and accept (value) that we are good and valuable, then our beliefs will be the very thing that will support us in losing our wrong understanding. When we say  “Nothing is working our way, we tried hard. Whatever we do that all fails”. With such belief system if we work for hundred times, nothing works. It doesn't work because we haven't set up the proper condition of belief that will allow us to accomplish what we want to accomplish. We fail to value what we want to accomplish. We haven't looked to and believed in where we were going. We are not concentrat­ing on what we ultimately value. 

Most of the time we concentrate on what one should be doing or what one shouldn't be doing. But rarely we look at the overall goals to see where we are and where we should arrive so that we will know the proper pieces to complete the puzzle.